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Be Your Own Interior Designer

If you’re like most who read this blog you have an avid (or at least abiding) interest in interior design. You care how your house looks. You are willing to tackle projects yourself and have an ever-widening radius for porch pick-up of Marketplace treasures… and you probably have an ordinary, builder-grade home. Most of the …

Be Your Own Interior Designer

If you’re like most who read this blog you have an avid (or at least abiding) interest in interior design. You care how your house looks. You are willing to tackle projects yourself and have an ever-widening radius for porch pick-up of Marketplace treasures… and you probably have an ordinary, builder-grade home.


Most of the time your choices feel right, they feel good. But sometimes you wonder… does this look good, or are folks just being nice? I get that! It can be intimidating to plunge into a project especially if it’s something you’ve never done before, or it will be expensive to fix if it goes awry.

I absolutely love designing my own home, I care about how it looks and more importantly how it functions. Even if we had the money to hire a designer I doubt I would. There is something about the challenge. There is something about the satisfaction of learning (and intentionally breaking) interior design rules. The entire design process behind creating a room fascinates me. Anyone can learn to decorate/design their own home. It is simply a learned skill that improves with practice. Matt & I call this house our “practice” house. Most likely this is not our last home so I feel the freedom to try out different design ideas. That being said, if you are in your “forever” house don’t hesitate to try things! It’s just paint. It’s just a nail hole. It’s just a cushion. It’s not life-threatening if it doesn’t turn out like you imagined!

We took a hard look at our living/dining/kitchen in the fall of 2022 and decided we were ready to tackle all three spaces. I admit, as I stood in the dining room and realized all three rooms had to be harmoniously designed it was overwhelming! I thought “I can’t do this” and walked away. But the ideas began to simmer and the excitement built. What was there to lose? Sure, we might make a mistake, but probably not something irreversible. So I took the plunge. This was how our dining room looked pre-remodel.

Not trying would’ve been a greater loss.

Here is my simple process for applying interior design:

  • Teach yourself: Dig. Pore over sources: Pinterest, Instagram, blogs, books, podcasts, courses, and in-person home tours.
  • Practice: Play with your home. Define your style and your style season.
  • Choose colors: Define your color palette.

This is after. Lighter and brighter with an English garden feeling was what I was going for. We added Laura Ashley wallpaper and painted the wainscoting, chair rail, and door in Universal Khaki. The cane blinds at the window add interesting texture and the warmth of wood tones. It’s still astounding the difference paint and wallpaper make! We also sold the table and chairs for $250, brought in a table Matt inherited and I found the antique chairs in Marketplace for $100. I’m glad we stepped outside our comfort zone and redid this room! If you’re interested in reading about the entire dining room remodel process click here.

Since then, I’ve swapped out the art for a mirror, thrifted this large blue chinoiserie lamp, and have plans to make a pleated lampshade. If making a custom lampshade interests you, check out my no-sew pleated lampshade tutorial.

You: the self-taught designer.

This is such a wonderful age to learn design! Never before has such a quantity of fabulous images been at our fingertips. One can follow the work of a favorite designer online via Instagram, Pinterest, or blogs. You can also purchase an interior designer’s published books, and learn from them via courses or podcasts. Other in-person sources to study design include home tours. Tours are great for historical reference and for getting a correct idea of scale and proportion.

When studying photographs take in the room as a whole and in its parts. I find that design books are a never-ending source of inspiration. Each time I peruse a design book I am considering a different part of a room. One time I may be studying flooring and the next time art placement. Don’t get overwhelmed, file great ideas for later. An idea I’ve filed away for later is adding reclaimed beams to our living room. I love how the aged, hand-hewn wood adds such authentic cottage character to a space, but this project doesn’t fit with where we are in life right now, or where our budget is. Take from the ideas of others, but don’t compare where they are/what they can do with where you are and what you can do.

You: the happy “risk-taker”

Most design decisions are probably not as risky as you think they are. Most of your decisions are reversible. In our kitchen, we decided to paint the cabinets. After what seemed like the colossal decision of what colors to go with we jumped in and cleaned, sanded, cleaned again, primed, and painted the cabinets ourselves. This was a lot of work, but the monetary investment was low since there was no labor cost.

For me, adding color was the most intimidating part. When the green paint went on and was still wet it was a scary lizard green and I was dismayed. But… I held my nerve and waited to pass judgment until the paint was dry and it was daylight. The sage tones on the paint came through and mellowed the green to the perfect shade. This was in the fall of 2022 so we’ve lived with the new color scheme for about two and a half years ~ and I adore it! I love this shade of green so much that it has appeared in our pantry makeover and patio makeover.

You: the color/pattern enthusiast.

I love lots of patterns, but I don’t love crazy… One common element in the English country house is the mixing and matching of patterns. There is something so homey, relaxed, and personal about this play of color and pattern, which I wanted to work into our kitchen design. To keep the patterns calm and balanced I stuck to a tight, simple color palette of ivory, taupe, green, and blue.

Now that we had the wallpaper going on in the dining room and the two-toned color scheme in the kitchen I felt that I needed to bring the two rooms together with a bridge pattern. This was accomplished through the Zellige tile backsplash behind the stove and kitchen sink area. The wallpaper is the feature pattern which meant the tile pattern needed to be a support pattern and not too loud. The small inset diamonds are a soft blue pick up the touches of blue in the wallpaper, and the blue kitchen decor accents.

We couldn’t be more thrilled with how it turned out! Sure, there were moments when we (mostly I) held our breath, but it was worth the “risk” to try something we’d never done before!

To recap: People aren’t born interior designers ~ they become interior designers. It can be learned and you can teach yourself!

  • You: the self-taught designer. Teach yourself: Dig. Pore over sources: Pinterest, Instagram, blogs, books, courses, podcasts, and in-person home tours.
  • You: the happy “risk-taker.” Practice: Play with your home. Define your style and your style season.
  • You: the color/pattern enthusiast. Define your color palette.

Friend, if I can do this, so can you. Once you try it, you’ll never look back ~ it is loads of fun!

Warmly,

Rachel

Join the conversation

  1. Donna July 12, 2024

    I absolutely LOVE the transformation of your kitchen and dining area – not to mention your beautiful living room! You took your time to curate every item that made such a transformation. I love watching your videos when you go thrifting. You do find amazing items! I live in NH and I have to admit, I struggle to find the beautiful pieces you always seem to find! You and Matt are very talented and bring joy with every video!

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      We appreciate you following along with our projects, Miss Donna!
      It may seem like I find lovely items at the drop of a hat, but each second-hand “haul” you see has taken months to curate. Plus, lately, more and more of the items I share are coming from Etsy and eBay. So take heart, you can find nice decor online!

  2. Melanie Fay Johnson July 12, 2024

    Everything you do is so lovely…your creative ideas are amazing and you are so fortunate to have Matt …he is wonderful skilled helper. Thank you for sharing and I am wishing you all the best from Alabama….Melanie Fay..

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      That is kind, Miss Melanie.
      Yes, Matt has learned how to do many things and is a great blessing!

  3. Roxie July 12, 2024

    Honestly, Rachel…I think your remodel is one of my most favorites. It’s just amazing how beautiful the transformation is, especially doing it all on a small budget. I never get over at what some paint and wallpaper will do. Plus, the extra touches your sourced with the deal you got on your island countertop, the beautiful tile, your faucet, and cute light…so very lovely and all just the perfect touches. I love your ideas, your style, and how you emphasize one can truly enjoy beauty on a budget with careful thought and planning. And I believe we all have some ability to be creative, because we have a creative God who can help us and who cares even about those little details within the heart of our home. You’re a blessing…thanks so much for your willingness to share with us!

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      How very sweet, Miss Roxie!
      I fully agree, we all have the potential to be creative no matter the skill set, or budget we have. Thanks for sharing!

  4. liane abeyta July 12, 2024

    I love all the elements you incorporated into this combined space. It flows seamlessly. Blue and white is my favorite!
    But adding that soft green on the cabinets made such an impact. And I love the bamboo shades for texture with the gorgeous faucet!!!! Stunning!
    The only thing I see, that I have addressed in my kitchen too….. is that the light fixture over the kitchen table is not centered. I had the same issue . All we did was get a a longer chain and cord…. put a heavy duty hook over the table… and swagged it over. Now mine looks intentional. Before it drove me crazy. Especially since I had a round table . The off center was driving me crazy! Have a happy day!

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      Glad you enjoyed seeing the transformation, Miss Liane!
      You’re right the chandelier isn’t centered, it’s on the list to do someday…

  5. Janina July 12, 2024

    Hi miss Rachel,
    Your home is so pretty ???? Funny you mentioned beams. That’s something I’ve been thinking about a lot. It’s a feature that is so English country. My living, dining, kitchen are small. 12 x 23. But I love beams. Think I have to do some digging on Pinterest and in my favourite books. The English homes aren’t generally that big either so it should work. Then figure out how to get them up there lol.
    Wishing you a good weekend, Janina ????

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      Great point, Miss Janina!
      English cottages are small and they often have beams. Let me know if decide to go with beams in your house!

  6. Marlene July 12, 2024

    You are so talented and I love all you and Matt have done. Thank you for sharing and you have me thinking of the changes I would like to make in my home. Need to research and find someone to help.

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      Yay, it’s great fun to get the “house wheels” turning!
      Planning and research are tremendously helpful. Happy house projects, Miss Marlene!

  7. Ilene July 12, 2024

    I always feel like a stick in the mud when I see how much has changed for the better in your house. I guess I’m just like my dad was. If he liked the way it looked, it stayed that way! When we first moved in, my husband and I did quite a bit as it was totally “vanilla” inside and out. Since then, I’ve added a picture or two and repainted my bedroom, but for the most part, everything else has remained the same. I do SO ENJOY your blog and Youtube videos and admire your talent along with Matt’s expertise.

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      No need to feel like a stick in the mud!
      If you’re satisfied with your home and it’s full of sweet memories, that’s what counts!

  8. Sandy July 12, 2024

    Thank you over and over, for your wonderful insight into decor and achieving what you found, over time, that you like-and like to live with. Your descriptive words are so helpful. Right now, I’m attempting a guest room/office in a 10′ x 12′ bedroom that we add an inflatable bed to when we have company. It works fine, but when the bed is not there, it looks unfinished, so your advice for the kitchen/dining room is most helpful! I enjoy all of your articles.
    Sandy in California

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      I’m glad you picked up some helpful tips, Miss Sandy!

  9. MiMi July 12, 2024

    So encouraging and informative.
    Keep up the good work.

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      Glad you enjoyed, MiMi!

  10. Janet July 13, 2024

    Your transformed home is just so delightful – I always enjoy “visiting!”

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      We enjoy having you, Miss Janet!

  11. Kathy A July 14, 2024

    I so enjoy seeing your home and how you have added so much character to it. I love blue and white china, too and have bits of it all over! I have lived with the same ol’, same ol’ for so long I tend not to see stuff anymore. But I bought a half bird cage last week on clearance at Hobby Lobby and have placed several of my ceramic birds in it for a nice vignette!

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      How fun!
      Enjoy playing with your house, Miss Kathy!

  12. Dueley July 14, 2024

    You are the most talented person…with all of ideas and taking your time to think things out before purchasing! I absolutely love the wall paper that you chose for your dining area! I would love for you to decorate my home. Yours is so cottagy and that’s what I want! Thank you Rachel and Matt! You are an inspiration to all!

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      That’s very encouraging, thank you!
      If there’s one thing you take away from our channel it’s that you can do it, too!

  13. Robin Nieto July 15, 2024

    Hi Rachel and Matt,
    Thank you both so much for sharing your home and talents with us. You’ve inspired me to make my home better. Watching your channel and then visiting Ireland and seeing cottages there has really helped me in making my home feel more like me and my husband’s style.
    Robin

    1. Rachel Stone July 16, 2024

      That’s wonderful. Miss Robin!

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