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Purge FIRST!

As many of you know we have been on a “get-the-stuff-out” rampage ever since May of last year. Originally, I thought I had started the purge journey in January, but after flipping through my previous journal, I saw that I started on May 21st, 2024. Anyway, to date we have moved 2,487 items out of …

Purge FIRST!

As many of you know we have been on a “get-the-stuff-out” rampage ever since May of last year. Originally, I thought I had started the purge journey in January, but after flipping through my previous journal, I saw that I started on May 21st, 2024. Anyway, to date we have moved 2,487 items out of our house since then… This still amazes me, and since I don’t see us stopping now, it makes me wonder where we’ll be by May 21st, 2025! The whole project started because our home was starting to feel out of hand and hard to manage. There have been some significant unexpected wins along the way that we hadn’t counted on and I’d like to share these with you!

The photograph above is one I’ve shared before and demonstrates one of the larger donate “hauls” we had. I can see art, sewing supplies, home decor, and lighting. This is evidence that we’d sorted through several different categories. While this was one of the larger loads, we usually had one box, or basket every week. When we were in the midst of this project I didn’t think about taking many pictures. Why would anyone want to see the junk we’re getting rid of? Now that we are seeing such a difference in our home I know those before/after pictures would’ve been great! I may not have many “before” pictures, but I do have the “afters!”

“You can’t organize clutter, and you can’t decorate clutter.” Shannon Acheson

If your goal is to organize or simplify your home the very best place to start is with purging. This is the opposite of what people usually do. They buy organizers or systems first. By waiting until you have reduced your home inventory to a manageable base, then you will see clearly what needs organizing and exactly what/where to do it. This brings up my second point… Purging brings clarity.

Purging brings clarity.

By purging first you will gain clarity for what comes next. You will see what things you actually have and exactly how they need to be organized. You also will be able to see the spaces you have available since they won’t be covered up with clutter. Once you can truly see both the spaces you have and the things that will be in them two options become evident. One option is to re-evaluate what is most appropriate and sensible for a space. You may want to relocate certain items to another more logical location. The other option is to then buy any needed organization systems for the items that you know you’ll be keeping.

Clarity gives permission.

Once you are certain of the organizing system that will work in your home and with your stuff you can feel confident about your purchases. By doing the mental and physical work of de-cluttering your space you are very familiar with the inventory you have to work with and how it will be used. One example of this in our journey is in our pantry. Once we removed the things that didn’t belong and re-evaluated what was left we noticed there were four categories of things that would benefit being housed in baskets. I carefully measured the shelves and ordered one pair of baskets from Amazon. I started with one set to be sure they would fit before ordering the other pair. As you can see they fit perfectly! Not only do the baskets help keep the things grouped together, but it also gives a visual continuity to the pantry. I found that when an area is highly simplified and prettily organized it stays that way!

Another example is in our coat closet. This closet is not glamorous, but before we purged it you would have to fight to hang your coat, and I was the only one who knew just how to twist the vacuum around to extract it from the hole where it was wedged. Now, with the closet highly simplified, we felt confident in ordering a set of matching wooden hangers! I commented to Matt the other day: “It actually feels so grown-up to be able to say to a guest ‘hang your coat in the coat closet’ and they actually can!” This simple little closet feels luxurious now, and he commented the other day when hanging his coat “I love this closet!”

There are many more space transformations I’d like to share with you as we move into 2025. I would like to further refine how we store things and continue to improve the functionality of our home. What experiences have you had in keeping your home manageable? What spaces do you struggle with?

Purging brings clarity. Clarity gives permission. Systems give peace!

Join the conversation

  1. Robin Nieto February 14, 2025

    I’m also going through our home and purging things we don’t use. We like to donate to charities that give back to our community. I’d love to see your home after the purge and organizing is done.

  2. Charlotte Fairchild February 14, 2025

    We have a lot of pillows we don’t use made by my Mom, my grandmothers, and me. I have not bought any from any store. I do make slipcovers, and those are in a drawer when I don’t use them. My pillows come out rarely. When I have the time I do use them. I saw Timothy Corrigan make a pillow room, and I did the same with a pillow closet. We painted half of our house pink, so the pillows in the pink closet are really pretty. I do purge things I have made and bought. Sometimes I need to think about what I am doing.

    Since we moved all of our furniture and all of our art work for the half of the house that needed painting, I haven’t put everything back. I am going to contact an appraiser for some of the original art I have. I plan to donate two pieces of art to museums. The rest I will sell.

    1. Rachel Stone February 15, 2025

      Hello Miss Charlotte,
      With the blank slate in half you home you have a great place to start from in re-evaluating! I realize the process was forced by the need to paint, but a least it’s only half the house at a time! Selling & donating your art is a great idea. Your art collection will only improve and you’ll love it even more. Happy homemaking!

  3. Marilyn February 14, 2025

    I am beginning to purge
    This post is motivating.

  4. Janet February 14, 2025

    If you keep moving something around from one storage spot to another, get rid of it. If you can’t commit to using it in your house today, or know for a fact it will be needed in the future, out it goes!

    1. Janet February 15, 2025

      …….. I meant, “or don’t know for a fact….” 🙂 Anyway, just my little bit of strategy for purging!

      1. Rachel Stone February 15, 2025

        Thanks for sharing!

  5. Marlene February 14, 2025

    It is so gratifying to get rid of stuff you don’t use or need anymore. I am on the same journey and it feels so good. This is a great post and enjoyed reading it.

  6. Lina Frandin February 15, 2025

    But, “Breaking up is hard to do”…haha! Ok, I am going to do better, I love dishes, lamps, linens too much!
    Thank you, Rachel, you are my inspiration as well as all the people commenting. ????

    1. Rachel Stone February 15, 2025

      You can do it, Miss Lina!

  7. Lynne Allison February 17, 2025

    Thank you for this post, Rachel! I appreciate the encouragement as I try to let things go. My goal is to make our big old farmhouse easier to care for and keep presentable as we age – even with a surprise blessing granddaughter from our 38yo daughter who was “never having kids!” ???? Life can sure send changes our way!

    1. Rachel Stone February 17, 2025

      Hi there, Miss Lynne!
      You won’t regret lightening the load for the future! Congratulations on your precious, new grandbaby!

  8. Josette Kalb February 18, 2025

    I just donated 4 bags only to bring in 4 bags, but they were things we will use and need (coats, shirts).

    I have to constantly ask myself if I truly love it enough to bring home and do I have a place for it?
    I struggle with letting go of useful items, but these same items I don’t use! I guess they aren’t useful to me!

    1. Rachel Stone February 25, 2025

      Sounds like you have figured it out and are doing a great job!

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