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The House Speaks ~ Your House Speaks

Listening to Your Home’s Design Needs Every home has a “voice.” This idea is not new to me and is a concept that I came across several years ago. This idea is that every home, your home, has an architectural style. For your home to look its best inside and out, it is wise to …

The House Speaks ~ Your House Speaks

Listening to Your Home’s Design Needs

Every home has a “voice.” This idea is not new to me and is a concept that I came across several years ago. This idea is that every home, your home, has an architectural style. For your home to look its best inside and out, it is wise to have an understanding of and respect for that style. This does not mean you must become an expert in all architectural designs, but having a broad grasp of the types of homes is useful and interesting!

Our little brick home was built in the mid-1960s. The exterior is simple with heavily louvered “shutters” flanking the windows on the front. If this were our permanent home we would remove these, install larger windows, and fill the space between the new windows and the brick with stone.

Understanding Your Home’s Architectural Language

Every home has a distinct architectural style (e.g., cottage, colonial, mid-century, farmhouse), or sometimes a mix of styles. Having a feel for the style your home has been designed in is valuable when considering renovating. In our neighborhood, there is a trend running where the homeowners are pasting a modern facade on these cottagey, bungalow style brick homes. The result is rather forced and garish. The warm tones of the brick have been painted stark white, the trim is a harsh black, and all the charming character, like shutters and scalloped trim, has been stripped away. There is a place for modern color palettes and architecture and they work beautifully on the buildings designed for them. The downside to these trendy “updates” is that they will be dated rather quickly, and become obvious poor design decisions.

An awareness of, and respect for, the architecture of your home is important for both the exterior and the interior. I’ve become fascinated by learning more about the design of homes inside and out. Because of this Matt gave me these two books for Christmas. I’ve already enjoyed several evenings by the fire learning the names of different styles and how they were applied to a home inside and out.

The Role of Scale and Proportion

In interiors, I’ve noticed the importance of scale in home decor. Small rooms benefit from lamps, rugs, and artwork scaled to the size of the room. Especially in small rooms, it is important not to use tiny, ditty little pieces of furniture as it can create a feeling of a busy dollhouse. Medium-sized art and lamps feel “right.” Large sofas can also work well in smaller rooms. In large rooms, however, oversized furniture and art, lamps, etc. can create an uncomfortable space that feels as if you’ve come to visit a giant’s house. One of the best ways to get the hang of what is a good size piece for your room is through trial and error as well as studying similar rooms that you are drawn to. Furniture, lighting, and art should be proportionate to the space.

Letting the House Guide Your Choices

As you learn to listen to your home for what is appropriate in architecture you will come to “hear” even more particulars such as the right trim, art, furnishings, and colors. How exterior materials and natural surroundings can inform interior color schemes. Trim sizes should be in keeping with the style of your home. A home with very high ceilings and ornate Victorian architecture will call for chunkier more ornate trim, large detailed richly colored oil paintings, and decorative vintage or antique furniture. A smaller simpler home would look best with lighter simpler trim, plainer furniture with straighter lines, etc… These are general examples, but hopefully will get you thinking in the right direction.

The architecture of our brick home is congenial to mixing with a cottagey, country style. We’ve chosen the trim colors to complement the warm tones of the brick. On the patio, we added shutters and country-style screen doors painted in a rich grassy green color with ivory trim. It was a wonderfully fun project that gave us such a great transformation!

Listen to Your Home

Let me encourage you to step back and observe your homes before making design decisions. You might just be surprised by what your house “says” and how working within the framework of the architecture will become a natural, easy way of improving your home. There is a satisfaction that comes from a home that feels cohesively designed and true to itself. Your home, every home has a voice and can “tell” you what it needs. Until next time, take care,

Warmly,

Rachel

Join the conversation

  1. Linda February 25, 2025

    Thank you so much for this Rachel. I look forward to watching your YouTube channel as I’ve learned so much. Please continue your posts. I’ve signed up and taken your course in mixing prints…again I learned so much. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and ideas.

    1. Rachel Stone February 25, 2025

      You are very welcome, Miss Linda!
      It makes me so happy to know you enjoy and benefit from the blog posts. No worries, I already have posts planned out for all of 2025! Thank you for lettng me know that you took & enjoyed the Pattern Mixing course, that’s very encouraging! Thank you for supporting our channel and blog.
      Blessings,
      Rachel

  2. Anne Smith February 25, 2025

    Such an informative article. We have one of those homes that I’m not really sure what the architectural style is. No matter the style, I love it! We’ve lived here 20 years and don’t plan on moving anytime soon. We’ve done some of the bigger remodeling projects inside ie, Kitchen and bathroom with great success. I’ve been contemplating sprucing up the outside for sometime now, but have been hesitant to do so for the reasons stated in your article. I’m not a fan of “trendy” decorating. In any event, I love reading your articles and find them so inspiring.

    1. Rachel Stone February 25, 2025

      The hesitation to improve the exterior of your home is understandable! Especially if the architectural style is vague. Thank you for reading the blog and following along with our adventures!

  3. Ilene February 25, 2025

    It almost seems like I need for you to listen to my house and let me know what it’s saying…LOL! I had no idea that adding those shutters to the window on the front of the house, along with painting my front door blue instead of matching it to the trim on the outside of the house would make SUCH A DIFFERENCE!!! Now I get lots of compliments on my house and lots of offers to buy it (which I will not do)!!

    1. Rachel Stone February 25, 2025

      You’re right, the shutters and blue door have made a big difference! Now your home looks more complete with unique personality. I’m glad you don’t want to move!

  4. Marlene February 25, 2025

    This is a great study of our homes and what style they are. I truly needed this and have enjoyed all these posts. I’ve been trying to turn my 1944 home into a more cottage style by adding a screened-in porch and some cedar shakes to front of porch and the two ends of my home.

    1. Rachel Stone March 3, 2025

      That sounds wonderful, Miss Marlene!

  5. Melanie Fay February 25, 2025

    Thank you for this post. I learn something new from you each time you share such lovely thoughts and information. After reading the things you mention I look around my wee tiny place and appreciate all I have been given and all I have. I look at it with a thankful, grateful heart. And, yes, I do declutter and rearrange….reading your tips always just makes my day….All the best…Melanie Fay

    1. Rachel Stone March 7, 2025

      This is wonderful, Miss Melanie!
      It makes me happy to know these posts make you happy!

  6. Catherine Glowinski March 9, 2025

    Rachel,
    Thank you so much for this lovely article. We bought our home 5 years ago and worked on it for three years before we even moved in… crazy right…! But now that we have been here for 2 years, I have been trying to tweak our home and “listen” to it, just getting to know our home and choose thrifted decor more wisely, and more period appropriate for our 1840’s home. I will definitely get those books suggested at the library (I am cheap, lol) as I am really wanting to increase my knowledge on design styles. I am always excited when you post a you tube video, you are one of my favorites and I have been subscribed for several years now:) I love how calmly you explain things, I feel like I am just having tea (I do not drink coffee, lol) and chatting with an old friend. I do not always comment like I should, since I usually watch all of my you tube videos on my Samsung frame television of course. But I just want you to know how much I appreciate your and Matt’s content. If not for my husband’s talents I would not have a “newish” You Tube channel as well, so I just want to give your husband credit as well. I hope you have a very Blessed Week.

    1. Rachel Stone March 22, 2025

      Hello Miss Catherine!
      Your home sounds lovely and what a treat to be able to decorate a new “old” home!Thank you for taking the time to share your thoughts and best wishes on your new YT channel!

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