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Keep Your House “Light”

Have you ever been inspired by a children’s book? Often the message taught through the story is simple ~ yet profound. Well, there’s this children’s book with a great life principle that resonated with Matt & me over the years. The title of the book is “The Biggest House in the World.” The story is …

Keep Your House “Light”

Have you ever been inspired by a children’s book? Often the message taught through the story is simple ~ yet profound. Well, there’s this children’s book with a great life principle that resonated with Matt & me over the years. The title of the book is “The Biggest House in the World.” The story is about two snails, a father and a son. The son wants his “house” or shell to be the biggest. They watch as this desire comes to pass for another snail in the cabbage patch. His house was amazing! It had bright colors and bulging towers, and it was huge!

But then. The snails moved on once the cabbages were gone and alas… the snail with the giant house couldn’t move. “Some things are better small, keep your house light and easy to carry.” said the father.

This principle has always rung true for us and at different times over the years, we have set out to keep our house from getting too big. In our culture of abundance, things can accumulate even if you’re not a shopper. Moving house is a time when we’re all forced to reevaluate the stuff that has crept into our homes. While Matt & I aren’t planning to move anytime soon we are working towards reconfiguring a poorly done garage conversion that came with the house.

This means that everything we’ve stored in this space needs to go somewhere… This has led us through a reevaluation process:

  • Purge: Do we need this? Who would need/use this?
  • Re-evaluate: is this… serving us well/now?
  • Streamline: would a smaller/simpler thing do just as well?
  • Reorganize: can this setup work better? Is this the best location for these things?

In running through these questions we have sold, given away, donated, and gotten rid of so much over the last ten months! The French provincial chest of drawers and long Federal dresser were no longer serving us as well as they could someone else, so they were sold on FB Marketplace.

Progress came in spurts. Sometimes we were able to get rid of big things, other times we gathered groups of little things. In this picture, you see lots of household goods that we donated. Somewhere along the way, I decided to see if we could purge/donate 500 items. Oddly enough, the following week Dawn, from The Minimal Mom on YouTube came out with a video on how she purged 500 things from her home! She gave me several more ideas and great motivation.

Here are more furniture pieces that weren’t serving us well, weren’t our style, or a good size for our home. The large pieces found new homes via Marketplace and the side table & lamp were donated. During this time we also assessed the profitability/time invested in my Etsy shop and decided to close out the shop. I placed most of the Etsy shop goods in an antique booth that was closing out. This venture brought about $200 in sales, plus some great trades with the booth owner! So far (since January of this year), we have gotten rid of 916 items! We are easily going to reach 1,000! The funny thing is… we haven’t missed any of it and without the photographs, I took to share with you we wouldn’t even be able to tell you what we’d purged!

Like the little snail in the story, we have felt a greater sense of freedom, greater joy in our home, and less stress. The ripple effect is that places like the dining room, the kitchen, and the guest bedroom have become even better versions of themselves and served us even better than before!

Currently our “office” is in the buffet. Whenever it’s time for either of us to knock out some work on our home businesses we have everything we need right at our fingertips – even the laptop!

Here, in the guest bedroom, the bulky French chest of drawers, and the French settee have been replaced with a small bookcase and a simpler gallery wall arrangement. This room feels lighter and cozier at the same time.

I would highly recommend applying this reevaluation process to your home. It will feel light, and free, and you’ll love your home even more. I promise. Until next time,

Keep your house small!

Rachel

Join the conversation

  1. Carlene October 15, 2024

    Thank you, Rachel! This is just the spark of motivation I need at this time!

    1. Rachel Stone October 15, 2024

      Wonderful!
      Have a lovely autumn!

    2. Carol October 16, 2024

      Oh, thank you. I’ve been trying to do something like this, but just didn’t know where to start. You’ve given me an idea.

      1. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

        Yay!
        Starting is the hardest part. Now that you have a vision you’ll start to see momentum!

  2. Melanie Fay Johnson October 15, 2024

    What an inspiration you are…I tend to sometimes “clutter decorate” . Fall is a great time to have a look around and give my rooms another think….All the best…Melanie Fay

    1. Rachel Stone October 15, 2024

      Good morning, Miss Melanie!
      I’m glad this post resonated with you. We all need to have a look around and give our rooms another think!
      Thank you for stopping by today.
      Have a lovely autumn!

  3. Teresa October 15, 2024

    Rachel, what an amazing job you and Matt did in decluttering your home. We recently moved, and what surprised me is, we moved to a much larger house, but lost a lot of our storage space. So, as you can guess we got rid of a lot of items. Like you, I don’t miss them as I wouldn’t have had any place to put them or even store them. Have a wonderful day!

    1. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

      Thank you, Miss Teresa!
      Isn’t it amazing how one can get rid of so much and yet miss none of it?
      Enjoy your new home!

  4. Kristina Clark October 15, 2024

    As always l am insured! I have been purging for months…it’s a work in progress! My extra room in my home is a music room. The closet serves as a pantry/storage. Soon it will be half empty due to my youngest daughter’s upcoming wedding. It’s been so much fun collecting things and having a space for it.

    1. Kristina Clark October 15, 2024

      Opps inspired…it’s early here…hehehe

      1. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

        No worries, I’ve done the same!

    2. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

      What a wonderful journey!
      I’m sure you have that same “light & free” feeling that comes with purging! You will enjoy putting together your “new” room even more.
      Thanks for sharing, Miss Kristina!

  5. MiMi October 15, 2024

    Wow you did declutter. I am slowly but surely clearing out
    some things. Your tips are great and encouraging.
    Keep sharing your tips.
    MiMi

    1. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

      Way to go, MiMi!
      Little by little is very effective. Keep it up!

  6. Jennifer October 15, 2024

    I am reminded of how my home looked staged for sale. Clutter was gone! My daughter and I had that conversation as she just sold her home this past summer. She purged, packed and stored and her house looked amazing in the listing photos.
    If we could keep that picture in our head of how great our homes looked and felt decluttered, we would make much wiser decisions on what to bring back in. We kept only a few big pieces when we moved, and have slowly decorated a home about 1/3 the size we previously owned. We try to be careful about only buying what we need, compromising between too much and enough to be cozy & comfy. My daughter let go of a lot as well, my granddaughter needed a few things to furnish a campus apartment so she inherited a few things. Meanwhile my daughter is also learning what to bring in make her new home just what she & her family want it to be.
    It is a lifelong skill.

    1. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

      The feeling & appearance of a home staged to sell is a great “home goal picture” to keep in mind!
      As long as the space is still cozy and usable it would be so much easier to maintain. Your concept reminds me of the book “Cozy Minimalist” by Myquillyn Smith.
      And, you’re right, it does take a lifetime. Happy autumn, Miss Jennifer!

  7. Lynda Lara October 15, 2024

    Your posts are always interesting and inspiring but I particularly enjoyed this one. I am looking at my furnishings in a new way. I am going to part with some things that aren’t really working.

    1. Rachel Stone October 17, 2024

      Wonderful!
      I understand the “revelation” that you can get rid of things you’ve always had. It is freeing to know that you don’t have to keep things just because you’ve always had them.
      Thanks for sharing. Miss Lynda!

  8. Ilene October 17, 2024

    As always, your posts and videos are so inspirational. I would love to purge more of our stuff and I wish I knew more about how to sell things on Marketplace. Although I’m not sure I’m comfortable with strangers coming to my house.
    Probably the donation route would be the best for me.

    1. Rachel Stone October 23, 2024

      I’m glad you find these posts inspirational, Miss Ilene!
      I’m sure you could figure out how to use MP and there is always the option of a meetup somewhere other than your home. Donation is great, too! Thanks for stopping by. Have a lovely day!

  9. Janet October 29, 2024

    I’ve also done some purging and downsizing lately … but I have to admit I feel a little bad seeing some of the items you’ve featured in past videos now in the boxes of items you’ve purged (like that gorgeous coral pleated fabric lampshade), but I understand the reason …

    1. Rachel Stone October 29, 2024

      Good morning, Miss Janet!
      Yes, I get it. I loved that lamp & shade, but as our needs have changed and our home color palette has solidified, those colors no longer fit into our home. I treasure the memories from that project & will use those skills down the road. Plus, I was able to trade a good bit of decor for pieces that are going to be part of room makeovers, DIY projects and a remodel coming in the future… Thank you for following along!

  10. Denise Persinger November 4, 2024

    Hi Miss Rachel, you are inspiring as always! Best wishes on your remodel, looking forward to seeing the progress. I hope you will have time to produce Christmas decor videos this year!

    1. Rachel Stone November 4, 2024

      Good morning, Miss Denise!
      It’s always encouraging to hear when a reader has been inspired, thank you for sharing. Once the master bedroom in done I plan to share a series of videos on the process – it’s been a fun project and we’re pleased with hoe it’s coming together! Yes, I’ve got several Christmas DIY & decor ideas on the list for this year & I’m already getting excited about sharing them with you all! Thanks again for sharing your thoughts today & have a lovely day!

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